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Date : 20 September 2014
Speech by UN Women Goodwill Ambassador Emma Watson at a special event for the HeForShe campaign, United Nations Headquarters, New York, 20 September 2014 [Check against delivery.]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkjW9PZBRfk
http://www.unwomen.org/en/news/stories/2014/9/emma-watson-gender-equality-is-your-issue-too (transcript)
Today we are launching a campaign called “HeForShe.”
I am reaching out to you because I need your help. We want to end gender inequality—and to do that we need everyone to be involved.
This is the first campaign of its kind at the UN: we want to try and galvanize as many men and boys as possible to be advocates for gender equality. And we don’t just want to talk about it, but make sure it is tangible.
I was appointed six months ago and the more I have spoken about feminism the more I have realized that fighting for women’s rights has too often become synonymous with man-hating. If there is one thing I know for certain, it is that this has to stop.
For the record, feminism by definition is: “The belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities. It is the theory of the political, economic and social equality of the sexes.”
I started questioning gender-based assumptions when at eight I was confused at being called “bossy,” because I wanted to direct the plays we would put on for our parents—but the boys were not.
When at 14 I started being sexualized by certain elements of the press.
When at 15 my girlfriends started dropping out of their sports teams because they didn’t want to appear “muscly.”
When at 18 my male friends were unable to express their feelings.
I decided I was a feminist and this seemed uncomplicated to me. But my recent research has shown me that feminism has become an unpopular word.
Apparently I am among the ranks of women whose expressions are seen as too strong, too aggressive, isolating, anti-men and, unattractive.
Why is the word such an uncomfortable one?
I am from Britain and think it is right that as a woman I am paid the same as my male counterparts. I think it is right that I should be able to make decisions about my own body. I think it is right that women be involved on my behalf in the policies and decision-making of my country. I think it is right that socially I am afforded the same respect as men. But sadly I can say that there is no one country in the world where all women can expect to receive these rights.
No country in the world can yet say they have achieved gender equality.
These rights I consider to be human rights but I am one of the lucky ones. My life is a sheer privilege because my parents didn’t love me less because I was born a daughter. My school did not limit me because I was a girl. My mentors didn’t assume I would go less far because I might give birth to a child one day. These influencers were the gender equality ambassadors that made me who I am today. They may not know it, but they are the inadvertent feminists who are changing the world today. And we need more of those.
And if you still hate the word—it is not the word that is important but the idea and the ambition behind it. Because not all women have been afforded the same rights that I have. In fact, statistically, very few have been.
In 1995, Hilary Clinton made a famous speech in Beijing about women’s rights. Sadly many of the things she wanted to change are still a reality today.
But what stood out for me the most was that only 30 per cent of her audience were male. How can we affect change in the world when only half of it is invited or feel welcome to participate in the conversation?
Men—I would like to take this opportunity to extend your formal invitation. Gender equality is your issue too.
Because to date, I’ve seen my father’s role as a parent being valued less by society despite my needing his presence as a child as much as my mother’s.
I’ve seen young men suffering from mental illness unable to ask for help for fear it would make them look less “macho”—in fact in the UK suicide is the biggest killer of men between 20-49 years of age; eclipsing road accidents, cancer and coronary heart disease. I’ve seen men made fragile and insecure by a distorted sense of what constitutes male success. Men don’t have the benefits of equality either.
We don’t often talk about men being imprisoned by gender stereotypes but I can see that that they are and that when they are free, things will change for women as a natural consequence.
If men don’t have to be aggressive in order to be accepted women won’t feel compelled to be submissive. If men don’t have to control, women won’t have to be controlled.
Both men and women should feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong… It is time that we all perceive gender on a spectrum not as two opposing sets of ideals.
If we stop defining each other by what we are not and start defining ourselves by what we are—we can all be freer and this is what HeForShe is about. It’s about freedom.
I want men to take up this mantle. So their daughters, sisters and mothers can be free from prejudice but also so that their sons have permission to be vulnerable and human too—reclaim those parts of themselves they abandoned and in doing so be a more true and complete version of themselves.
You might be thinking who is this Harry Potter girl? And what is she doing up on stage at the UN. It’s a good question and trust me, I have been asking myself the same thing. I don’t know if I am qualified to be here. All I know is that I care about this problem. And I want to make it better.
And having seen what I’ve seen—and given the chance—I feel it is my duty to say something. English Statesman Edmund Burke said: “All that is needed for the forces of evil to triumph is for enough good men and women to do nothing.”
In my nervousness for this speech and in my moments of doubt I’ve told myself firmly—if not me, who, if not now, when. If you have similar doubts when opportunities are presented to you I hope those words might be helpful.
Because the reality is that if we do nothing it will take 75 years, or for me to be nearly a hundred before women can expect to be paid the same as men for the same work. 15.5 million girls will be married in the next 16 years as children. And at current rates it won’t be until 2086 before all rural African girls will be able to receive a secondary education.
If you believe in equality, you might be one of those inadvertent feminists I spoke of earlier.
And for this I applaud you.
We are struggling for a uniting word but the good news is we have a uniting movement. It is called HeForShe. I am inviting you to step forward, to be seen to speak up, to be the "he" for "she". And to ask yourself if not me, who? If not now, when?
Thank you.
To see a video of Emma delivering her speech, visit HeForShe.org
- See more at: http://www.unwomen.org/en/news/stories/2014/9/emma-watson-gender-equality-is-your-issue-too#sthash.hIxX9x6P.dpuf
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I am agree to some extent with her view, but I think that most of the times they are just nonsense things that we do during the adolescence depending on who are our friends. Sometimes they are just stereotypes.
The example of male friends who were unable to express their feelings: I think that here it’s more a problem of the way which that boy grew up in his family o who were their friends in that moment (If they were a gang where they used to talk about their feelings, he will have more facilities) than a gender-based assumption.
Or even a stereotype: I am a girl, and yes, even me sometimes I have problems to express my feelings too.
Sometimes this kind of things are just a symptom of insecurity. I’ve never was aware of this sort of sexualized things during my youth, beyond than boys used to play football and girls used to go shopping.
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Thanks for your comment, Lourdes. Do you think, then, that these attitudes of adolescents (whether they are boys or girls) are not an example of gender bias? Perhaps you’re right, but it makes me wonder about whether we sexist attitudes are developed as early on as during adolescence.
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I completely agree with Emma in the point that, in first world countries, women may be not less valuable as children because of the fact of being women. However, her remark that her mentors did not assume she would go less far because she can have children is more debatable. Although, as Emma points out in her speech, women have gained some rights, sex discrimination still persists in additional ways.
Nowadays, even in Europe, many women undergo unfair and unlawful discrimination in her workplaces: women earn less money than men for doing the same job or pregnant women can be dismissed from their jobs. So, women discrimination still works in developed countries.
Moreover, I welcome Emma’s decision to get men involved in this fight, as it is an issue that concerns both genders. Therefore, men’s attitudes towards women in the workplace must change in order to make a better society for all.
In conclusion, I am shocked to see that there is still some kind of discrimination towards women simply for the fact of being women. There is no reason why a woman should be treated differently from a man. Remedies are needed urgently.
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What can I say? I agree with all the points you’ve made. The situation of women in many places around the world never ceases to surprise, or even shock us.
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You’ve already said many things, and we even talked about this during the lessons. It seems to me that we share many common ideas, and that’s good. That’s a good starting for our implication as a fighting society. Not by HeForShe as Emma Watson suggests, but looking closer, maybe in our hometowns, for sure in Galiza, there are feminist initiatives working. Having a progressive opinion about abortion is nice, but going to the purple demonstrations is much better.
I loved when Watson said that we shall perceive gender on a spectrum and not as two opposing sets of ideals. But it is a hard work, so agreeing with it is not enough. We have to stop gossiping when somebody dresses queerly. We have to stop criticizing when a woman has many relationships. We have to stop thinking if one person loves boys he/she can’t love girls at all. We have to stop accepting as normal that women tidy up the kitchen. I’d love us to try to break our mental stillness. It is a hard work, of course; it’s a work until the end of our days. But trying it is how we continue fighting. Every morning.
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Thanks for sharing your comments with us, Carlos. I think you’ve expressed your compelling and thought-provoking ideas wonderfully.
I also wish we would all help to break down those mental barriers you speak about, and promote whatever changes are needed to make this a more tolerant, undogmatic society, and responsive society.
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I utterly agree with Emma Watson because I consider that the end of gender inequality is urgent and it is essential that everyone is involved in this cause; men and women. There is a social confusion about this and actually the fight in favor of the equality between men and women is not a battle against men. They are an important part of our society, so they are necessary to reach this hard challenge.
This is not a tangible goal but it is an incontestable reality. On the one hand, women earn less money than men for the same job, women suffer more unemployment than men and women have more limits to access to education in many countries around the world. On the other hand, women suffer an unfair violence practiced by men: little girls are obligated to married to older men in some countries or they are violated without punishment. The fight is necessary and if the goal were achieved, the world would be different. We couldn´t recognize it. However, it is difficult to imagine such a changed world nowadays.
Recently, the expression feminism has acquired negative connotations. For this reason, there are famous women who reject to pronounce themselves about this question in public. Emma Watson has chosen the other option: she has committed to the gender equality.
To conclude, I would like to express my admiration for Emma Watson´s gesture. She is a successful actress and she could be spending her free time in a different way but she decided to face the problem and stand up for the gender equality. Not everybody can say the same.
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Thanks for your comment, Rocío.
I agree that the term “feminist” has such negative associations, that many people will avoid using it, and certainly few women would be happy to be called one. It may be time for a revival of sorts, don’t you think?
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I totally agree with Emma Watson that change should start by making everybody aware of the EQUALITY of humans and inviting men to participate in the reflections about women rights. I think that change should start in the EDUCATION of people, not meaning only EDUCATION at schools but at home.
If we take an overview to what EDUCATION has been so far, we would all agree that even parents that defend the EQUALITY of SEXES, at some point, have made a “discrimination”, most of the times unconsciously, because it has been part of their EDUCATION. Thinking of the conception in society regarding the roles of men and women, we are said to be different in many aspects. Men are the strong ones while women are the sensitive; they bring the money, we take care of the children and the house; and so on, and in this conception of the sexes there is no room for EQUALITY. In my opinion this stereotypes should be put apart. Since nobody is better than others, both men and women should be conceived as equals.
It is true that this conception is changing nowadays but it is taking too long, and, in the meantime, women are being private of their rights, treated as animals, submitted to men, paid less, etc.
She is right when she says: “if not me, who, if not now, when”. If we make this INEQUALITY go further, we will arrive to a point of no return. Moreover, if men do not get involved in this change, women, on their own, have nothing to do because for the EQUALITY to exist all the PEOPLE have to be dedicated to the issue.
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Thanks for your comment, María.
I agree that we need to put these gender stereotypes behind us, if our society is to move forward, but these “truths that we hold to be self evident,” are not so obvious for others, don’t you agree? I wonder how we can drive the needed social change?
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Hi guys,
Carmen and I have actually talked about this vid for a long while as we find it genuinely inspirational and touching.
I defo agree with most of your comments as you highlighted very good (stand)points. What Emma did so far and , what is more, what she still intends to do in the future in order to fight , not only for gender equality but for the humankind in general, is such a priceless job. A job that in her own speech seems to be somehow effortless.
A highly-acclaimed and well-off young lady who really looks after the ones in need, regardless of their race, colour, gender, age or political belief.. She´s truly talented and renowned but yet a down-to-earth, educated and sensible person. By listening to her, one can really feel the passion in her words, as well as her unselfish commitment and devotion. I wish every single individual was a bit like her. But unfortunately we live in a society which is turning more and more “aloof” and egotistical by the minute.
Where are the limits? Why is our society becoming so increasingly focused on individual gain whereas poverty levels unstoppably increase worldwide? Are our rulers ruling us OUT?
The problem is that no one owns a magic wand that could help us build a better world, or at least a better future for our young generations. Woefully, not even Mr. Potter could. Gender or sex discrimination is a reality and is still out there, not exclusively in the underdeveloped or developing countries but within our so-called rich and powerful nations. Rich in material resources perhaps, but truly poor in ethics, morality and social behaviour.
Truly sad and discouraging, indeed. Ain’t?
Thank you all for your contributions!
Regards
Juan
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Thank you so much for your beautifully written comment, Juan. Indeed these are words that I myself would have written, if I had your talent! I completely agree with what Emma Watson expressed with such heartfelt emotion. Her speech is truly inspirational, her words so nurturing, that I could live on them alone. If only there were people with magic wands that could rid the world of Dementors. Because, that’s what’s ruining things for us, isn’t it? Of course, the hands that held those wands would have to belong to honest, kind, equitable, unselfish people. Ain’t?
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